07-28-2008, 08:36 AM
1 neutral as a buyer.
I really hate to do this - this is the first non-positive feedback I've ever had to leave anybody anywhere, but it is the truth. Potential sellers need to know! D:
I sold her two wigs, and she paid very promptly. However, when those wigs didn't arrive immediately, she began hounding me. And hounding me. And hounding me - borderline harassment. Keep in mind, she is in the US, and I am in Canada - they have a border to get through.
I understand that she has been scammed before, and therefore is a bit wary...but I have no negative feedback, no neutrals. I responded to every PM and e-mail that she sent me, have been active in posting in various dolly communities, and have received several positive feedbacks from other transactions going on in the meantime. I haven't disappeared, so there was no real reason for this behavior.
I told her from the very first time she contacted me about them not arriving in a week - if they didn't arrive period, I would absolutely claim the insurance for her. Yes, I did send them by an insured means. However, it isn't possible to claim this until 90? days have passed from the date of mailing, since it is international. She continued to guilt me about how her dollies were bald, she saw other wigs that she wanted to buy but didn't want to if the ones I "sent" would arrive, etc - basically insinuating that I should refund her out of my own pocket.
Anyhow, they finally arrived - it took about 5 weeks. I have 8 PMs and a couple of e-mails from her, in this time, regarding to where the wigs are and such.
Moral of this story - unless you use e
ress mail, or are within the same city as her, be wary of selling to her. She is a nice person, and pays promptly, but is overlyOVERLY paranoid about getting scammed again. This whole eerience really stressed me out, to the point where I'm considering stopping selling dolly things. It just isn't worth it, if this is going to happen to genuine, honest sellers. >_<
Again, I absolutely HATE that I'm having to leave anything but a positive, but I can't lie and watch something similar happen to another seller. I'm sorry.
I really hate to do this - this is the first non-positive feedback I've ever had to leave anybody anywhere, but it is the truth. Potential sellers need to know! D:
I sold her two wigs, and she paid very promptly. However, when those wigs didn't arrive immediately, she began hounding me. And hounding me. And hounding me - borderline harassment. Keep in mind, she is in the US, and I am in Canada - they have a border to get through.
I understand that she has been scammed before, and therefore is a bit wary...but I have no negative feedback, no neutrals. I responded to every PM and e-mail that she sent me, have been active in posting in various dolly communities, and have received several positive feedbacks from other transactions going on in the meantime. I haven't disappeared, so there was no real reason for this behavior.
I told her from the very first time she contacted me about them not arriving in a week - if they didn't arrive period, I would absolutely claim the insurance for her. Yes, I did send them by an insured means. However, it isn't possible to claim this until 90? days have passed from the date of mailing, since it is international. She continued to guilt me about how her dollies were bald, she saw other wigs that she wanted to buy but didn't want to if the ones I "sent" would arrive, etc - basically insinuating that I should refund her out of my own pocket.
Anyhow, they finally arrived - it took about 5 weeks. I have 8 PMs and a couple of e-mails from her, in this time, regarding to where the wigs are and such.
Moral of this story - unless you use e
ress mail, or are within the same city as her, be wary of selling to her. She is a nice person, and pays promptly, but is overlyOVERLY paranoid about getting scammed again. This whole eerience really stressed me out, to the point where I'm considering stopping selling dolly things. It just isn't worth it, if this is going to happen to genuine, honest sellers. >_<Again, I absolutely HATE that I'm having to leave anything but a positive, but I can't lie and watch something similar happen to another seller. I'm sorry.